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RAINN National Sexual Assault

HOTLINE ~ Free. Confidential. 24/7

1-800-656-HOPE (4673)

National Domestic Violence HOTLINE

1-800-799-7233

Strong Hearts Native HELPLINE

1-844-7NATIVE (762-8483)

National Suicide Prevention HOTLINE 

1-800-273-talk (8255)

National Human Trafficking HOTLINE 

1-888-373-7888 

TEXT 233-733

Self-Care After Trauma

“With more than 1,400 allied organizations and over 40 state, local, and international chapters, NO MORE sparks grassroots activism, encouraging everyone—women and men, youth and adults, from all walks of life—to be part of the solution.”   Click Here to learn  more about NO MORE, and here  How to Help Survivors

 

The NO MORE Silence, Speak Your Truth platform provides a safe and supportive space for people impacted by domestic violence to share their experiences, learn from other survivors, and connect to resources.

“Your story is personal and unique, but sharing it can be a healing experience for you and others.

Remember, healing is not linear and is different for everyone. It is important to stay patient with ourselves when setbacks occur in our process and forgive yourself for everything that may go wrong along the way.”

“NO MORE is a groundbreaking, global initiative comprised of the largest coalition of nonprofits, corporations, government agencies, media, schools, and individuals addressing domestic and sexual violence. We are committed to engaging, reaching, and working with people from diverse communities.”   Click Here to GET HELP – Directory of domestic & sexual violence helplines  & services ~ 200+ LOCATIONS AROUND THE WORLD!

It’s On Us

1156 15th St NW, Suite 1000 | Washington, DC 20005  |  contact@itsonus.org | 202.908.5226

OUR MISSION

The mission of It’s On Us is to build the movement to combat campus sexual assault by engaging all students, including young men, and activating the largest student organizing program of its kind in grassroots awareness and prevention education programs.
 
 
It’s On Us is committed to providing high-quality, free-to-use sexual violence awareness and prevention education trainings and supportive materials to our network of campus chapters. Our six core awareness and prevention programs address the needs of modern campus communities today.
 
“We strongly encourage It’s On Us Chapters and Student Organizers implementing these programs to check out our Workshop Facilitators Guide before hosting any of the following trainings.”
A Voice for the Innocent

A Voice For The Innocent is a safe, anonymous online community of support for victims of rape and sex abuse.

Join A Voice For The Innocent to share your support, or to share your story.
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Get Help – Counseling

Get help and the resources you need 24/7.

Call 800.656.HOPE (4673)

FIND HELP NEAR YOU

 ( centers.rainn.org )

It’s helpful to have support in your own community after a sexual assault. Local service providers make it easy for you to access care, and they are knowledgeable about the laws in your area and local resources that can assist you.

RAPE, ABUSE AND INCEST NATIONAL NETWORK 
HOTLINE:  1-800-656-HOPE (4673)

ADVOCATES AND SHELTERS (Local Programs) listed by State, organized by County:

https://www.womenslaw.org/find-help/advocates-and-shelters

For a list and description of organizations that provide assistance for survivors and their families, visit: https://www.rainn.org/national-resources-sexual-assault-survivors-and-their-loved-ones

  • Asian, Native Hawaiian and Pacific Islander Survivors
  • Black Survivors
  • Child Abuse/Sexual Abuse
  • College Students
  • Domestic, Dating and Intimate Partner Violence
  • Human Trafficking
  • Immigrant Survivors
  • Incest
  • Indigenous Survivors
  • Latinx Survivors
  • Legal Resources
  • LGBTQ Survivors

  • LGBTQ Survivors of Color

  • Male Survivors

  • Medical/Physical Health

  • Mental Health

  • Military Resources

  • Stalking

  • Sexual Assault Prevention

  • Suicide & Self-Harm

  • Survivors with Disabilities

The RAINN app gives survivors of sexual violence and their loved ones access to support, self-care tools, and information to help manage the short- and long-term effects of sexual violence.

Find Support

The app’s “Hotline” feature can connect you directly with one-on-one support from a trained support specialist on RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline via phone or online chat. It’s free, confidential and available 24/7.

You can also chat with other survivors in our peer-to-peer HelpRoom.”

Practice Self-Care

The app’s “Self-Care” section contains exercises to help you take a moment for yourself as you heal. They include a Mood Tracker to help you reflect on how you’re feeling and figure out the best ways to care for yourself; relaxing visuals from The Monday Campaign to help you destress; and audio exercises from Headspace for calming meditation.”

 

Learn More

The app’s “Learn” section includes helpful information on sexual violence topics, finding and giving support, and healing.

You can also hear from survivors offering their own real-life stories of hope and healing.”

 

The RAINN app is available in the App Store and on Google Play.   Download it today.

Each month, RAINN highlights a member of its National Leadership Council. The NLC is a group of dedicated individuals who have shown their commitment to RAINN’s mission of supporting survivors and ending sexual violence.


Whitney Wolfe Herd is the founder and CEO of Bumble, which puts women in control of the online dating experience, and a member of RAINN’s National Leadership Council. She recently became the youngest woman to take a company public and is a passionate advocate for women leaders in business.

Bumble CEO on Supporting Survivors and Creating Safer Dating Experiences 


Excerpt:

What do we need to do as a country to prevent sexual violence?

“We need to promote discussions of healthy relationships from a young age as well as empowering folks of all genders—including men and boys—to be allies. Bystander intervention should be taught on every college campus. We also need to uplift and support the crucial work of organizations like RAINN, who are not only doing the work on the ground to educate communities and provide support to victims, but urging lawmakers to take action to, for instance, end the rape kit backlog.”

#MeToo

TELLING OUR TRUTHS | You Can Heal From Abuse | NIKITA MITCHELL

“I am so glad you found this page. If you are here, it means you want more information for yourself or someone else who wishes to heal from sexual abuse or sexual violence. I want you to know that no matter what happened to you, healing is possible! It might not seem like it right now, but it is!
“There is no right way to heal, and your healing journey might look different from other people you know.

“There is no set time to heal, and it is never too early or late to start. Take one day at a time and be kind to yourself; you are doing the best you can.”

“Remember you are not responsible for taking care of or protecting the person who harmed you.

“As you can see, there are so many ways to heal! All of these options will allow you to heal your mind, body, and spirit.

“You can do as many or a few of these things as you like. Some of these things you may do already if so keep doing them!
“The best part is many of these things cost no money, don’t require a lot of equipment, can be done at home, school, in your community, with friends or family, and without parental permission.

Being abused or experiencing sexual violence does not define your entire life. It does not mean you cannot be the person you want to be. I want you to know so many survivors are healing, thriving, and living the lives they want to live!

“You can too, don’t give up hope!”

~ Nikita Mitchell

https://metoomvmt.org/explore-healing/telling-our-truths/you-can-heal-from-abuse/

SAMHSA’s NATIONAL HELPLINE 
1-800-662-HELP (4357)
Substance Abuse.  Mental Health. 
Find Help.  Find Treatment. 

SAMHSA – Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration

 

DISASTER DISTRESS HELPLINE

1-800-985-5990 24/7

The Disaster Distress Helpline, 1-800-985-5990, is a 24/7, 365-day-a-year, national hotline dedicated to providing immediate crisis counseling for people who are experiencing emotional distress related to any natural or human-caused disaster. This toll-free, multilingual, and confidential crisis support service is available to all residents in the United States and its territories.

Stress, anxiety, and other depression-like symptoms are common reactions after a disaster.

Call or text 1-800-985-5990 to connect with a trained crisis counselor. 

https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/disaster-distress-helpline

 

 

Capistrano – San Clemente, CA

Monarch Shores Recovery – San Juan Capistrano, CA

Mountain Springs Recovery – Monument, CO

Willow Springs Recovery – Bastrop, TX

Click Here for Directory of FREE Addiction Treatment Centers in the US.

 
Sunshine Behavioral Health
1-855-701-0750

Addiction Treatment & Rehab is available for people of all color, women, men, children, addicted Veterans, the blind, deaf, disabled, the elderly, LGBTQ, Transgender, and rural residents.   Click Here for Resources.

A person struggling with drug abuse along with their loved ones only benefit from as much information and resources as possible on drug addiction. Drug abuse hotlines provide guidance for people looking to find treatment or discuss their addiction. Many drug abuse hotlines are available 24/7. Individuals can find drug crisis hotlines for themselves or for loved ones with substance use disorders.”

Sexual Assault and Substance Abuse

Domestic violence often involves sexual abuse. There is a link between substance abuse and sexual abuse. In many cases, substances are used in instances of sexual abuse. Alcohol is the most typically used substance in these instances.

“The link between substance use disorders and sexual abuse is complex. In many cases, it is a vicious cycle. Victims of sexual abuse are more likely to struggle with substance abuse, and those who struggle with substance abuse are more likely to experience sexual abuse.”

Why Domestic Violence and Sexual Abuse Victims Don’t Seek Addiction Treatment

It is hard enough for the person who hasn’t been through domestic violence or sexual abuse to seek treatment for a substance use disorder. There is such a stigma associated with addiction in our country. Many people view addiction as a moral failing as opposed to a disease that needs to be treated. Victims of domestic violence and sexual abuse have an even harder time seeking treatment for drug and/or alcohol addiction.”

Learn More

Click Here for Directory of Free Addiction Treatment Centers in the US.

About WomensLaw.org

About WomensLaw.org | WomensLaw.org

(En Español)

Despite its name, WomensLaw.org provides information that is relevant to people of all genders, not just women. Our Email Hotline will provide legal information to anyone who reaches out with legal questions or concerns regarding domestic violence, sexual violence, or any other topic covered on WomensLaw.org.

 

About Abuse

About Abuse | WomensLaw.org

These pages provide an overview of domestic violence and sexual assault as well as more detailed information about specific forms of abuse.

  • Am I Being Abused?  (Danger  Assessment; Signs of Abuse)
  • Forms of Abuse (Abuse Using Technology; Domestic Violence/Teen Violence; Emotional Abuse; Financial Abuse; Reproductive Abuse & Coercion; Sexual Abuse & Exploitation; Stalking & Cyberstalking; Litigation Abuse)
  • Abuse in Specific Communities (Abuse Among People Living with AIDS/HIV; Abuse in Immigrant Communities; Abuse in Tribal Communities; Information for Teens & Young Adults; LBGTQIA Victims; Male Victims; Abuse in Jewish Community; Elder Abuse
  • Safety Tips (Domestic Violence Victims; Stalking Victims; Safety Planning with Children; Safety in a Confidential Address; Safety in Court; Safety in Rural Areas; Safety While Using the Internet; Safety While Using Social Media
  • In the Workplace (Sexual Harassment by a Co-Worker or Boss; Workplace Restraining Orders (filed by Employer)
 
Find Help (US Map)

Find Help for Yourself and for Others | WomensLaw.org

Click on your state (in the map or in the drop-down menu) to find contact information for:

  1. advocates in local domestic violence programs and shelters;
  2. legal assistance organizations;
  3. courthouse locations where you can file for a protection order; and
  4. sheriff departments. If you need to talk to someone about an abusive relationship, you can call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

 

Legal Information (US Map) 

Legal Information | WomensLaw.org

  • Know the laws – By State
  • Preparing for Court – By Yourself
  • Immigration
  • Federal Gun Laws
  • Domestic Violence in the Military
  • Videos
 
Helping Others 

Helping Others | WomensLaw.org

  • Family, Friends, Co-Workers
  • Advocates
  • Lawyers
  • Doctors, Healthcare Professionals
  • Salon Professionals

Womens Law Email Hotline:  WomensLaw.org Email Hotline

 

Other Helpful Information:

Advocates and Shelters | WomensLaw.org  (drop-down menu for your State)

National Organizations | WomensLaw.org  (listed by subject matter)

Chat Rooms and Message Boards | WomensLaw.org

There are a variety of support services available to victims of domestic violence and sexual assault on the Internet. We have listed some of these resources.

 

American Psychological Association (APA) Locator
 

The American Psychological Association (APA) has a feature to locate a counselor or therapist in your area who can help you if you are experiencing emotional abuse. You can select “domestic violence” from the drop-down list on their webpage.

“Therapists are trained to help people in crisis and could be a big support for someone suffering. To find out if the therapist accepts your health insurance or what his/her fee is, contact the therapist directly.”

The BREATHE Network

http://www.thebreathenetwork.org/

info@thebreathenetwork.org

The Breathe Network connects survivors of sexual violence with sliding-scale, trauma-informed, holistic healing arts practitioners across the country. 

Additionally, we train healing, health, and wellness professionals on the nuanced mind, body and soul impacts of sexual violence and how to cultivate best practices in trauma-informed care.

DASH

Domestic Abuse Survivor Help offers peer support to individuals in abusive relationships and in relationship abuse recovery.

DomesticShelters.org

Click Here to enter your zip code to start your search for domestic violence programs and shelters near you.

DomesticShelters.org provides

The organization provides

  • 24/7 Crisis intervention, safety planning, and access to emergency housing.
  • trauma-informed services, and
  • education that helps these women cope with their experiences.

Plus, the organization works to help sex workers who have been trafficked either remove themselves from their situations, or continue sex work in a way that is safe for them.

There are plenty of ways to get involved with FAIR Girls, including donating, volunteering, and even starting a career with the organization.

FAIR Girls | Free – Aware – Inspired – Restored

Freedom Network USA

The Freedom Network USA is America’s largest coalition of individuals and groups working to provide victims of human trafficking with access to justice, safety, and opportunity, according to its site.

In addition to providing legal services, the group has created a network of survivors for support.

If you’d like to get involved with the organization, you can donate to help it train professionals.

Human Trafficking Advocacy | Freedom Network USA

Girlthrive, Inc.

Girlthrive Inc. honors teen girls and young women who have survived incest and all sex abuse through thriverships, opportunity and education.

“Girlthrive and Invisible Girls helps girls heal, move on with their lives with power and agency ending the cycle of abuse.”

Girls everywhere are healing every day!”

https://www.invisiblegirlsthrive.com

Resources: https://www.invisiblegirlsthrive.com/resources

HealthyPlace

Mental Health Support, Resources & Information | HealthyPlace

“Healthyplace.com is the largest consumer mental health site on the net. We provide authoritative information and support to people with mental health concerns, along with their family members and other loved ones.

“At HealthyPlace.com, you’ll find comprehensive, authoritative information on psychological disorderspsychiatric medications, and other mental health treatments. We also have online psychological testsbreaking mental health news, and more.

“We believe the most important thing in a person’s life is “peace of mind”.

“And at HealthyPlace.com, we help bring that to you by providing mental health information from experts, as well as everyday people who are dealing with psychological disorders.

Learn More About HealthyPlace.com | HealthyPlace

On About Us, you will see a list of Conditions from “Abuse” to “Schizoaffective Disorder” which link to those Communities where you can find “tons” of valuable information, articles, books, and videos.  (Some links are provided below for your convenience.)

They also have many, many Mental Health BLOGS!  Including: 

Mental Health for the Digital GenerationTrauma/PTSD | Verbal Abuse in Relationships  (includes an article How Abuse Can Lead to Suicidal Thoughts | HealthyPlace)

Mental Health Support, Resources & Information | HealthyPlace

Conditions include:
From Healthyplace.com

 

Rape victim stories can be very difficult to read, frightening and emotionally draining for some but stories of rape show other victims that they are not alone in their struggles. Rape stories detail the many abuses that some people suffer and yet survive and go on to succeed in recovering and regaining control of their lives. Rape victim stories can help others to realize that there are other survivors that have been through exactly what they have and come out the other side a whole person.

The following rape stories contain scenes of abuse, sexual assault, incest and violence. The people in these rape victim stories have been badly wounded by these events and yet have the courage to stand up and say what has happened to them. Each of these rape stories speaks to the courage of the person who has shared it.

https://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/rape/rape-victim-stories-real-stories-of-being-raped

 

Rape Stories from Real People

article references

Click Here  RESOURCES – Mental Health & Crisis for more information.

Click Here for RESOURCES – ONLINE THERAPY (Many are FREE!!)

HelpGuide.org

https://www.helpguide.org

About Us

HelpGuide is an independent nonprofit that provides free, evidence-based mental health education and support. Our mission is to empower people with information they can use to help themselves and their loved ones.

HelpGuide is proud to be recognized as a transparent and trustworthy nonprofit provider of quality health information.

HelpGuide is dedicated to Morgan Leslie Segal, whose tragic suicide might have been prevented if she had access to better information.

(PTSD & TRAUMA)

Recovering from Rape and Sexual Trauma

Recovering from sexual assault takes time, and the healing process can be painful. But you can regain your sense of control, rebuild your self-worth, and learn to heal.

Recovering from Rape and Sexual Trauma – HelpGuide.org

Helping Someone with PTSD

When someone you care about suffers from post-traumatic stress disorder, it can be overwhelming. But with these steps, you can help your loved one move on with their life.

Helping Someone with PTSD – HelpGuide.org

Emotional and Psychological Trauma

When bad things happen, it can take a while to get over the pain and feel safe again. But with these self-help strategies and support, you can speed up your recovery.

Emotional and Psychological Trauma – HelpGuide.org

 

See Additional HelpGuide Topics below.

helpguide.org

Click this link to find the following TOPICS near the bottom of the Home Page on HelpGuide:

The Journey

Each fall, the Monarch Butterflies in Maine begin an unbelievable Journey to a hilltop in Mexico.

How do they do it?

They focus on the Goal, not the Difficulties.

Each day they take their bearings and set off, allowing their Instincts and Desire to steer them.

They Accept what comes ~ 

Some winds blow them off course,

Others speed them along.

But, they keep flying. . .

Until. . .

One day. . .

They Arrive!

 

Indigenous / Native American Organizations

What does National Indigenous Women’s Resource Center do?

National Indigenous Women’s Resource Center   Providing national leadership to end violence against American Indian, Alaska Native and Native Hawaiian women by lifting up the collective voices of grassroots advocates and offering culturally grounded resources, technical assistance and training, and policy development to strengthen tribal sovereignty.
 
The National Indigenous Women’s Resource Center offers culturally specific technical assistance and training, policy development, and culturally grounded resource materials to support tribes, tribal programs, and advocates in their responses to violence against Native women, including domestic violence, sexual violence, missing and murdered Indigenous women and girls, stalking, and trafficking.
 
 
See also,
Association of American Indian Affairs  (Resources & Organizations)
 

Native Womens Wilderness is an organization whose mission is to inspire and raise the voices of Native Women in the outdoor realm and encourage a healthy lifestyle grounded in the wilderness.  Native Womens Wilderness also works on missing and murdered Indigenous women awareness.

Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women USA is a community-led initiative that focuses on the missing and murdered Indigenous women (MMIW) epidemic on both sides of the Canadian-U.S. border. There are systemic causes of the violence that causes the disproportionate rate of missing and murdered Indigenous women and girls, of which a great many cases go unsolved.

Native Hope

Across the United States and Canada Native Women and girls are being taken or murdered at an unrelenting rate.   Native Hope exists to address the injustice done to Native Americans.  We dismantle barriers through storytelling and impactful programs to bring healing and inspire hope.

Native Hope Resource Guide Addressing Native American Issues as a Non-Native for Allies

StrongHearts

StrongHearts Native Helpline (1-844-762-8483, or strongheartshelpline.org) is a 24/7 safe, confidential and anonymous domestic, dating and sexual violence helpline for American Indians and Alaska Natives, offering culturally-appropriate support and advocacy.

Indian Law Resource Center

The Center provides legal assistance to indigenous peoples of the Americas to combat racism and oppression, to protect their lands and environment, to protect their cultures and ways of life, to achieve sustainable economic development and genuine self-government, and to realize their other human rights. The Center’s Safe Women, Strong Nations project partners with Native women’s organizations and Indian and Alaska Native nations to end violence against Native women and girls.  Our project raises awareness to gain strong federal action to end violence against Native women; provides legal advice to national Native women’s organizations and Indian nations on ways to restore tribal criminal authority and to preserve tribal civil authority; and helps Indian nations increase their capacity to prevent violence and punish offenders on their lands.

Alliance of Tribal Coalitions to End Violence

Tribal Coalitions: Increase awareness of domestic violence, sexual assault, and sex trafficking against American Indian and Alaska Native women.

Enhance the response to violence against women at the tribal, federal, and state levels; and identify and provide technical assistance to coalition membership and tribal communities to enhance access to essential services.

National Indigenous Women’s Resource Center’s Safety Guide

On Your Mind 24-HOUR HOTLINE
1-650-579-0350  

On Your Mind is a safe and anonymous place for teens to get information and support from other teens with a chat room, Monday through Thursday 4:30-9:30 PST.

“On Your Mind also provides resources about abusive relationships, cutting, depression, and other issues affecting teens.”

“Something on your mind?   
Peer Supported Teen Crisis Chat”

We are here to support you during this time of stress. The COVID 19 pandemic and the BLM movement against police brutality can bring up lots of different feelings. Let’s process together.”

Victim Connect
HOTLINE: Phone or text: 1-855-4-VICTIM
(1-855-484-2846)
If this is an emergency, please call 911.
 
“The VictimConnect Resource Center is a place for victims of all crime to learn about their rights and options, confidentially and compassionately. This post is also available in: Español (Spanish)
 

“A program of the National Center for Victims of Crime, it combines:

“With extensive specialized training, our Victim Assistance Specialists stand ready to help crime victims.”

“National hotlines can help connect victims, survivors, and their support networks connect with local resources. The VictimConnect Resource Center is one of several other national hotlines that are dedicated to helping victims understand their rights and options, and make the choices that will best support their recovery.

“We suggest you choose the hotline that is best for you. If you aren’t sure which helpline, the VictimConnect Resource Center can speak with you about which helpline might fit your needs and what your other options are.”

https://victimconnect.org/