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“The Art of Empowerment”

“I am never proud to participate in violence, yet I know that each of us must care enough for ourselves that we can be ready and able to come to our own defense when and wherever needed.”

—Maya Angelou, Letter to My Daughter

Sun Tzu, author of The Art of War, said: “The supreme art of war is to subdue the enemy without fighting.”

The same applies to self-defense. That’s one of the core principles of a modern strain of self-defense training for women, which some call feminist self-defense, or empowerment-based self-defense.

Rather than training women how to fight off a stranger, feminist self- defense takes into account that women are more likely to be attacked by someone they knownot a stranger.

According to the Department of Justice’s National Crime Victimization Survey, only 38% of nonfatal attacks were committed by strangers, while more than 70 percent of fatal attacks were committed by someone known to the victim.

SELF-CONFIDENCE IS SELF-DEFENSE.

Empowerment Self-Defense!

~ a set of awareness, assertiveness, verbal confrontation skills with safety strategies and

physical techniques that enable someone to successfully escape, resist and survive violent attacks!!!

Click Here to Learn More WHAT IS EMPOWERMENT SELF-DEFENSE?

Click Here to Read More Empowerment 

Click Here to Find an ESD Practitioner 

Reprinted with permission from IMPACT-Boston.

WHAT IS IMPACT?

IMPACT is a personal safety, assertiveness and empowerment self-defense training program. It is part of a comprehensive effort to prevent sexual assault and other acts of interpersonal violence and boundary violations.

Click Here to read more about IMPACT Violence Prevention

and to find a Chapter near you.

No IMPACT Chapter near you?  Please click here to find Empowerment Self-Defense Classes and Courses

TAKING AN EMPOWERMENT SELF-DEFENSE CLASS IS

ONE OF THE MOST POSITIVE THINGS YOU CAN DO FOR YOURSELF!

This is the perfect time to 

Read SAFETY TIPS (for All), 
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Take a Self-Defense Course – The Top 23 Online Courses in Self-Defense  

SELF-EDUCATION IS SELF-EMPOWERMENT!

Lauren Taylor and Lynne Marie Wanamaker (defendyourself.org) wrote in their article for The Washington Post, Actually, Miss USA is right: Self-defense can prevent sexual assault.” that Miss USA 2014, Nia Sanchez of Nevada, told one of the judges that teaching women self-defense could help reduce sexual assaults on college campuses – she’s right. (Unfortunately, sexual assaults on college campuses have only escalated since 2014!!) 

(Click here for more information on defendyourself.org and classes now being offered!)

Self-Defense Based on Empowerment 

The American Medical Association even calls sexual assault an epidemic!!!  

Lauren and Lynne (self-defense instructors for more than 25 years) say their approach to self-defense is based on empowerment, focusing on expanding women’s choices in response to harassment, abuse and assault.  Lauren and Lynne say that, “Empowerment self-defense teaches skills that are both concrete and flexible.  These include interpersonal and environmental awareness, assertiveness, boundary-setting, physical strikes and community-building.

“These tools can help woman ward off sexual predators and deal with harassment and bullying.  This matters because interpersonal violence frequently occurs as a series of incidents of escalating intensity.  If we can interrupt violence in its early stages, we can decrease the harm it causes.” 

More Confidence

When asked if researching women’s self-defense had made her more paranoid, Caroline Cunningham, Associate Editor of the Washingtonian, told her co-worker that after discovering empowerment-based self-defense, “It’s had the opposite effect. It’s made me more aware but also more confident – both in my ability to protect myself and in the fact that my confidence is one of the things that may keep me safe.”

Where can I find an Empowerment self-defense class?