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RAINN National Sexual Assault

HOTLINE ~ Free. Confidential. 24/7

1-800-656-HOPE (4673)

National Domestic Violence HOTLINE

1-800-799-7233

Strong Hearts Native HELPLINE

1-844-7NATIVE (762-8483)

National Suicide Prevention HOTLINE 

1-800-273-talk (8255)

National Human Trafficking HOTLINE 

1-888-373-7888 

TEXT 233-733

exploitation*incest*prostitution*trafficking*child sexual abuse material online

Prevent Child Abuse/Sexual Abuse

STOP IT. END IT NOW!

“With more than 1,400 allied organizations and over 40 state, local, and international chapters, NO MORE sparks grassroots activism, encouraging everyone—women and men, youth and adults, from all walks of life—to be part of the solution.”   Click Here to learn  more about NO MORE, and here  How to Help Survivors

 

The NO MORE Silence, Speak Your Truth platform provides a safe and supportive space for people impacted by domestic violence to share their experiences, learn from other survivors, and connect to resources.

“Your story is personal and unique, but sharing it can be a healing experience for you and others.

Remember, healing is not linear and is different for everyone. It is important to stay patient with ourselves when setbacks occur in our process and forgive yourself for everything that may go wrong along the way.”

“NO MORE is a groundbreaking, global initiative comprised of the largest coalition of nonprofits, corporations, government agencies, media, schools, and individuals addressing domestic and sexual violence. We are committed to engaging, reaching, and working with people from diverse communities.”   Click Here to GET HELP – Directory of domestic & sexual violence helplines  & services ~ 200+ LOCATIONS AROUND THE WORLD!

Prevent Child Abuse/Sexual Abuse

Exploitation*Incest*Prostitution*Trafficking*Child Sexual Abuse Material Online

We all need to focus on PREVENTION

We can do this through Education and increasing our Awareness!

(Many Resources are provided here.  PLEASE SHARE with everyone you know!)

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Understanding Child Sexual Abuse

What is Child Sexual Abuse?

How Common is Child Sexual Abuse?

Where Can Child Sexual Abuse Happen?

Signs of Child Sexual Abuse

Preventing Child Sexual Abuse

Long Term Consequences of Child Sexual Abuse

What To Do if You or Someone You Know Has Experienced Child Sexual Abuse

Statute of Limitations for Child Sexual Abuse Survivors

RAINN  (Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network)

To speak with someone who is trained to help, call the

National Sexual Assault Hotline at 800.656.HOPE (4673) or LIVE CHAT online at online.rainn.org

https://www.rainn.org or Spanish: https://www.rainn.org/es

For a list and description of organizations that provide assistance for survivors and their families, visit: https://www.rainn.org/national-resources-sexual-assault-survivors-and-their-loved-ones

Information & Support for Survivors 

Dedicated to ending sexual assault and abuse 
 
Click Here for more Information and Resources helpingsurvivors.org
Adverse Childhood Experiences

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) have a tremendous impact on future violence victimization and perpetration, and lifelong health and opportunity.

Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) are potentially traumatic events that occur in childhood.  ACEs can include violence, abuse, and growing up in a family with mental health or substance use problems. Toxic stress from ACEs can change brain development and affect how the body  responds to stress. ACEs are linked to chronic health problems, mental illness, and substance misuse in adulthood. 

However, ACEs can be prevented.

Preventing ACEs can help children and adults thrive and potentially:

Lower risk for conditions like depression, asthma, cancer, and diabetes in adulthood.
• Reduce risky behaviors like smoking, and heavy drinking.
• Improve education and job potential.
• Stop ACEs from being passed from one generation to the next.

Preventing Adverse Childhood Experiences (cdc.gov)

Help Youth At Risk for ACEs |Violence Prevention|Injury Center|CDC

Youth Violence |Violence Prevention|Injury Center|CDC

vs-1105-aces-H.pdf (cdc.gov)

Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention

Children under the age of 18 may be exposed to abuse and neglect by a parent, caregiver, or another person in a custodial role (e.g., clergy, coach, teacher). There are four common types of child abuse and neglect.

  • Physical Abuse
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Emotional Abuse
  • Neglect

ChildHelp National Child Abuse  |  HOTLINE 1-800-422-4453)

“The Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline is dedicated to the prevention of child abuse. Serving the U.S. and Canada, the hotline is staffed 24 hours a day, 7 days a week with professional crisis counselors who—through interpreters—provide assistance in over 170 languages. The hotline offers crisis intervention, information, and referrals to thousands of emergency, social service, and support resources. All calls are confidential.

“Bottom line, we are here to answer the call.

“To learn more about our new text and chat services, please visit:”

https://www.childhelp.org/hotline

Darkness to Light

HELPLINE 866-FOR LIGHT (367-5444)

vhttps://www.d2l.org

Kaytlyn Gillis is the author of the book Invisible Bruises, and her Blog on Psychology Today Kaytee Gillis, LCSW-BACS | Psychology Today.

While much of the information in Kaytee’s book is for Survivors of Domestic Violence, her work focuses on assisting survivors of psychological abuse, stalking, and other non-physical forms of domestic violence and family trauma. 

Follow Kaytlyn Gillis @ claras_voice on Instagram.  You can also listen to her Podcast, KAYTEE with a Why – The Podcast, on Spotify and Anchor.

From Amazon: Kaytlyn Gillis’s debut, Invisible Bruises, is gripping account of the ways in which the legal system actually perpetuates the cycle of domestic violence. Gillis describes in a chilling, raw manner the way that victims continuously fall through the cracks in our criminal justice system while the courtroom becomes yet another tool that perpetrators use to further the abuse. Gillis navigates the courtroom battle with readers while giving tips for minimizing the risk of re-traumatization.  (Available on Amazon.)

While much of the information in Kaytee’s book is for Survivors of Domestic Violence, her work focuses on assisting survivors of psychological abuse, stalking, and other non-physical forms of domestic violence and family trauma. 

Kaytee also has a Blog on Psychology Today, with many articles that contain a lot of information for Survivors of Trauma, in general.  See, 5 Mental Health Goals for Trauma Survivors in the New Year.

Follow @claras_voice – Resources for healing for all survivors of family trauma and domestic abuse 

Girlthrive, Inc.

Girlthrive Inc. honors teen girls and young women who have survived incest and all sex abuse through thriverships, opportunity and education.

“Girlthrive and Invisible Girls helps girls heal, move on with their lives with power and agency ending the cycle of abuse.”

Girls everywhere are healing every day!”

https://www.invisiblegirlsthrive.com

Resources: https://www.invisiblegirlsthrive.com/resources

HealthyPlace

Mental Health Support, Resources & Information | HealthyPlace

“Healthyplace.com is the largest consumer mental health site on the net. We provide authoritative information and support to people with mental health concerns, along with their family members and other loved ones.

“At HealthyPlace.com, you’ll find comprehensive, authoritative information on psychological disorderspsychiatric medications, and other mental health treatments. We also have online psychological testsbreaking mental health news, and more.

“We believe the most important thing in a person’s life is “peace of mind”.

“And at HealthyPlace.com, we help bring that to you by providing mental health information from experts, as well as everyday people who are dealing with psychological disorders.

Learn More About HealthyPlace.com | HealthyPlace

On About Us, you will see a list of Conditions from “Abuse” to “Schizoaffective Disorder” which link to those Communities where you can find “tons” of valuable information, articles, books, and videos.  (Some links are provided below for your convenience.)

They also have many, many Mental Health BLOGS!  Including:  Child Abuse Help: How to Help an Abused Child | HealthyPlace  Mental Health for the Digital GenerationTrauma/PTSD | Verbal Abuse in Relationships  (includes an article How Abuse Can Lead to Suicidal Thoughts | HealthyPlace)

Mental Health Support, Resources & Information | HealthyPlace

Conditions include:

HelpGuide helps you help yourself

HelpGuide is a small independent nonprofit that runs one of the world’s top 10 mental health websites. Over 50 million people from all around the world turn to HelpGuide each year for trustworthy content they can use to improve their mental health and make healthy changes.

In Memory of Morgan Segal

HelpGuide is dedicated to Morgan Leslie Segal, whose tragic suicide might have been prevented if she had access to better information.”

“Following Morgan’s death, her parents Robert and Jeanne Segal began sharing their grief and discovered that all too many others had experienced similar struggles. “The pain was so evident,” said Robert, “the subject so frightening, hidden, and loaded with stigma, that they don’t know where to turn.” They concluded that the best way to honor the memory of their daughter was by helping people in similar trouble by guiding them toward appropriate information and care.

“And so HelpGuide was born.”

Learn More

Click this link to find the following TOPICS near the bottom of the Home Page on HelpGuide:

INHOPE

We are a global network of 46 member hotlines – Reporting suspected child sexual abuse images or videos, including a sexually explicit image of a child, supports the fight against such material.

The mission of INHOPE is to support the network of hotlines in combating online Child Sexual Abuse Material (CSAM).


In a borderless digital world CSAM has global consequences and as CSAM increases so do our efforts and those of our partners to combat it.

https://www.inhope.org/EN

info@inhope.org

Justice for Children

“Justice for Children’s Call Center helps when the child protection system fails to protect a child. We offer information, guidance and assistance to adults who are trying to keep the child safe.”

https://www.justiceforchildren.org

Lauren’s Kids 

Our mission is to prevent child sexual abuse through education and awareness and to help survivors heal with guidance and support.    https://laurenskids.org/

 

Lauren’s Kids is based in South Florida and educates adults and children about sexual abuse prevention through in-school curricula, awareness campaigns, and speaking engagements around the country and the world.

The Issue of Child Sexual Abuse  |   Includes:  Tactics of the perpetrator and Signs a child may be a victim of sexual abuse

Combatting Human Trafficking   |   Family Safety

 

SAFER, SMARTER FAMILIES |  Digital Health & Safety Resources
During this uncertain time of school closures, childcare pressures, and increased reliance on digital devices, it is important for families to be mindful of safetythe FBI has released guidance for parents to stay alert, especially when 1 in 5 children who touch a digital device will be sexually solicited online.
Parents – fear not! We are here to provide you with the knowledge, language, and activities necessary to teach your elementary school aged child(ren) about personal safety in a way that is comfortable, accessible, and fun. (Have a middle or high schooler in your home? Visit SaferSmarterFamilies.org for lessons designed for older children and teens!)

Lauren’s Kids has posted 6 digital lessons and activities from the Blueprint for Building Safer, Smarter Families resource, designed for use with elementary school students

For older children in middle school and high school, see  SAFER SMARTER FAMILIES

 

Safer, Smarter Families Family Safety Toolkit
The Safer, Smarter Families Family Safety Toolkit is designed to help your family address personal safety, abuse prevention, and social-emotional learning in a way that is comfortable and accessible for both you and your children.

National Center for Missing & Exploited Children

24-HOUR CYBER TIPLINE

1-800-THE-LOST

NCMEC’s CyberTipline is the nation’s centralized reporting system for the online exploitation of children. The public and electronic service providers can make reports of suspected online enticement of children for sexual acts, extra-familial child sexual molestation, child pornography, child sex tourism, child sex trafficking, unsolicited obscene materials sent to a child, misleading domain names, and misleading words or digital images on the internet.”  

https://www.missingkids.org/gethelpnow/cybertipline 

National Child Traumatic Stress Network  

Interventions | The National Child Traumatic Stress Network (nctsn.org) 

Childhood sexual abuse has potentially serious and long-lasting negative mental health impacts, including increased risk of developing Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), depression, suicide attempts, substance abuse, relationship difficulties, and many other problems.

Children who experience sexual abuse or assault also develop changes in neurobiology, immune functioning and physical health. Effective treatments are available to help children and teens recover from trauma impact. 

Resources:  Resources | The National Child Traumatic Stress Network (nctsn.org) 

(Also in Spanish) 

National Children’s Alliance 

This organization represents the national network of Child Advocacy Centers (CAC).  

“The Children’s Advocacy Centers (CACs) that are our members offer high-quality care so abused children can thrive. At a CAC, a coordinated team of experts in medicine, law enforcement, victim advocacy, mental health, and other disciplines hold offenders accountable and help children and families heal in a comprehensive, seamless way so no future is out of reach.”

https://www.nationalchildrensalliance.org

Office on Trafficking in Persons

U.S. Department of Health and Human Services | 330 C Street, SW | 
Washington, District of Columbia 20201 | Toll-Free: (888) 373-7888
 
The Administration for Children and Families (ACF) is committed to preventing human trafficking and ensuring that victims of all forms of human trafficking have access to the services they need.
 
The site offers:
  • Blog posts
  • Featured Resource
  • The opportunity to report a tip or request services
  • Visitors can subscribe to Human Trafficking’s Email and News Alerts.

Training Specific

  • A Resources section offers a list of organizations that provide training and technical assistance to build the capacity of service providers and communities to respond to human trafficking as it intersects with multiple systems.
  • A short synopsis and contact information on each is provided. Training audiences include youth-serving organizations, government agency service providers, and communities who respond to human trafficking.

10 Ways You Can Help End Trafficking 

10 Ways You Can Help End Trafficking | The Administration for Children and Families (hhs.gov)

 

Parents for Megan’s Law and the Crime Victims Center

HOTLINE:  1(888)ASK-PFML

“Parents for Megan’s Law, Inc. is a national community and victim’s rights organization dedicated to the prevention and treatment of childhood sexual abuse through the provision of education, advocacy, counseling, policy and legislative support services. They are a certified Rape Crisis Center and staff the National Megan’s Law Hotline and the National Sex Offender Registration Tips Program.”

See their “Resources/Links” tab for more “Prevention Tips” (Rape, Child Sexual Abuse, Internet Safety, Domestic Violence, Crime, Cons & Scams, Senior Citizen Scams, Safer Online Gaming)
Personal Consequences of Sex Industry Work Facts:

* Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is widespread in the sex industry
* PTSD is usually attributed to childhood abuse and/or sex industry-related trauma
* A substantial number of these women are homeless, single mothers of multiple children, under-educated, and medically uninsured; have a high rate of untreated health-related problems; and often have legal problems
* Women involved in the adult sex industry who have experienced trauma often feel shattered and hopeless
* Some escape the lifestyle, yet with limited resources, many find themselves “trapped” in the business
* Many have been attacked, exploited, and humiliated; mind-altering substances often are sought to temporarily mollify the physical and emotional pain
* The most prevalent mental health symptoms are in the mood and anxiety spectrums, but are often coupled with addiction to substances

Source: Anklesaria A, Gentile JP.  Psychotherapy with Women Who Have Worked in the “Sex Industry.” Innovations in Clinical Neuroscience. 2012;9(10):27-33..

Stop It Now!  HOTLINE: 888-773-8368

(12am – 6pm ET, M-F)

You can email the HelpLine (form provided) or Live Chat with Helpline at https://www.stopitnow.org/help-guidance/get-help-now)

Provides information to victims and parents/relatives/friends of victims of child sexual abuse.  The site also has resources for offender treatment, as well as information on recognizing the signs of child sexual abuse.

“Stop It Now! prevents the sexual abuse of children by mobilizing adults, families and communities to take actions that protect children before they are harmed.

“We provide support, information and resources to keep children safe and create healthier communities.

 

“Since 1992, we have identified, refined and shared effective ways for individuals, families and communities to act to prevent child sexual abuse before children are harmed – and to get help for everyone involved.”

https://www.stopitnow.org

THORN Digital Defenders

(Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore, Co-Founders)  THORN

Text “NOFILTR” to 741741 for immediate assistance for “Grooming”
If you’re being sextorted, GET HELP NOW – TEXT “THORN” TO 741741

Thorn, aka Digital Defenders of Children; Ashton Kutcher’s organization driving tech innovation to fight child trafficking and the sexual exploitation of children.

About Our Fight Against Sexual Exploitation of Children

Our Work to Stop Child Sexual Exploitation

We build technology to defend children from sexual abuse.

We refuse to live in a world where the technology exists to help kids but simply isn’t being used. We build powerful products, lead new programs, maintain essential resources, and develop awareness campaigns to attack the issue from all sides. Technology must be part of the solution.

THORN’s Vision

Eliminate child sexual abuse material from the internet.

Working to deter the problem ~ Child Sexual Abuse Material

The internet has made it too easy for abusers to share child sexual abuse material (legally known as child pornography). They create images and videos with an audience in mind. That content gets shared widely beyond the initial targets – recirculating the image, perpetuating the abuse and retraumatizing the child. 

Help prevent child sexual abuse.

Child Pornography and Abuse Statistics

Do you know what GROOMING is?
Do you know what SEXTORTION is?

Trafficking Awareness & Prevention

For Parents, Family Members, Teachers, Educators,

Young Adults & Teens

Video re awareness and prevention, and how they’re doing it online and through social media – parents need to be aware!

Please watch this short video https://www.fox29.com/news/a-new-trend-is-causing-teens-to-be-vulnerable-to-human-trafficking
and read this article https://internetsafety101.org/trafficking

Please Click here to visit the Human Trafficking page for more informative videos, articles and links to additional websites.